Many women typically thirst for lonely men to chase them and waste time on them to prove that “you really want them“.
The bad ones make you spend money on them too- though time is money, because time can be spent working more to make more money, or for other self-development that can lead to higher income in the future. Mental distractions make a man trail off from his primary life objectives.
However, in-demand men are desirable due to their image and reputation. They do not need to waste time, or chase women, to find a woman. Chasing women and wasting time is a game often for the not successful, who must chase and waste time to find a woman.